Because what you really want is just around the corner. It’s easy to find reasons not to do things. And if you don’t know where your path is going, you were just given the perfect opportunity to find out! 3. As long as you are on the right path, every step counts. You might not be where you want to be in the long run, but that’s life. Don’t allow yourself to wallow in your negative feelings. But make sure these are people willing to help you. And that eventually changed my perspective on things. And my husband would call me on it, which eventually changed my language. It’s not what I thought I should be doing. What I really meant was: “I did a lot of things, but they don’t count.” They didn’t count in my head because it wasn’t what I wanted to do. In the evening, when my husband asked me what I did that day, I quite often said, “Nothing, really.” Of course I had done a lot of things every day. The way you think and talk about your situation will determine how you feel about it. Words are powerful, even if they aren’t said out loud. Then there is really no reason to feel sorry at all. And it is still up to you what you do with your circumstances. It might seem like life has hit the pause button, but life is still happening. What for? Even if you do, you feel no motivation to get anything started or done. Some mornings you might not even want to get out of bed.

Keep going